Or some intersex people that don’t id with the lgbt community. People that identify as cis that “crossdress” or even do some things that might be considered to be part of “transitioning”. Straight people that often just felt more comfortable around gay people because they could just be themselves.Īnd yeah that’s an obvious example of people that aren’t queer hanging out in queer spaces but there’s also a ton of gray area. But so were straight people that just kind of fell outside of societal norms a bit. I grew up in the theatre community, and after I learned what being gay was I discovered that gay people were everywhere in theatre. Irl probably almost nobody would kick this guy out. And maybe the queer community is where he feels most at home because he’s kind of feminine, and doing drag is a big part of his life. Like a cishet man that likes doing drag likely doesn’t consider himself queer and neither would any of his queer/lgbt friends but he might still be super active in the community and mostly hang out with gay guys and bring his girlfriend to pride and maybe even perform at pride.
